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Life Changing!
Hi All,
I am Bison G, Dominant as of only 3 weeks. Myself and my goodgirl are in our late 40’s, been married forever, and although we had dabbled in a bit of power exchange during sex we had never tried it as a life style. Our relationship had been suffering all of the typical problems of being vanilla. We have always communicated well but fully shared the power, and it was slowly killing the emotion. I didn’t realise how much until I woke one morning after a mostly sleepless night and told my wife I was going to be her Master. I still can’t believe the things I said to her at 9 o’clock in the morning! She was ecstatic, giggling like a schoolgirl. Decades of stifling vanilla fog disappeared and we just went crazy for each other. If you have ever wondered whether it was possible to feel like you did when you first started dating after 22 years of marriage, I am here to tell you you can. But I am quite sure most people on this site know that already!
With the honeymoon period over we’re settling into the D/s 24/7 and I joined because I found this site and Mr Fox’s sentiments most closely resonated with how I feel. I have already found some solutions to the early road bumps on this site.
Thank you and respect to you all
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4 Replies
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Thank you DOMmissive,
Totally!.I wouldn’t have believed it possible. So much of it is counter to everything we’re told about what a good relationship should be today. I think it’s this that keeps it largely hidden from view, but there are times when you feel you’ve found the key to the universe! I know that sounds OTT but the effect it has on your understanding of all other relationships, family, business etc. really does make it more profound.
Working hard at being the best DOM I can be now. Having a house full of teenagers means there is a lot of pressure to relax into that vanilla mindset again. At the moment I’m reading all I can, which helps refocus.
Best wishes to you
Bison G
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Bison G,
Not odd at all…
I believe that many of us now have a much better understanding about all relationships. It has been quite the eye opener…
Mr Fox
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Welcome Bison G, a houseful of teenagers my hats off to you. My kids were 7 years apart so I only had one teenager at a time at home.
enjoy your new journey
Buck
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Bison G.
Welcome aboard!
I am still smiling from reading your statement that you have already found some answers to a few early road bumps on husDOM. That is exactly why I began the website and community, to share knowledge and experience with each other.
I look forward to learning more about you and your submissive. Your goodgirl may find a lot of value in my submissive’s community as well. https://submrs.com
Best wishes along your journey,
Mr Fox
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