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It is all new to me.
About 3 weeks a ago my wife told me that she was considering an open relationship. I was both ecstatic and terrified. I had no idea why she had all of a sudden decided to grant me this opportunity. I asked her and she responded by telling me that there are things that I don’t give her in the bedroom. She told me that she need to be “controlled”, and I was at a loss. She had always told me that she like to be spanked, but it never really went any farther than that. Well here we are now, and I have absolutely no clue as to what I am doing, or what this choice entails. I want to be the person that gives her everything that she desires. It will be a long road, and it is still very uncomfortable for me to try these things, but I am hoping to learn and become more confident.
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Mr Sparks,
Welcome aboard,
Many of us have had that feeling of uncertainty when we began. Let me assure you that you have discovered a wonderful place to find camaraderie and support. Begin reading the blog posts in the Where to Begin dropdown menu. You can also find a lot of knowledge and support in the forums and on the chat.
And contact me anytime if you need more specific guidance.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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