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Introduction of new member
Hi everyone-
I’ve always known that power play was a large part of my sexuality, even from a very young age. The first time I came in a women, I had torn a towel into strips, tied her wrists to the headboard, licked her until she begged to be fucked, and mounted her as she strained against her restraints. That wasn’t just “play.” It was what I needed. It’s still what I need.That women was a cute and sexy coed in my college days more than 30 years ago. She became and is still my wife. She is my rock, my best friend, my co-conspirator, and my somewhat kinky lover. I count my good fortune every day that she has shared my life. That she has loved me, and helped me, and joined me in my kinky needs.
After starting a relationship, I’m just a monogamous-while-married kind of guy. This is what works for us, emotionally, sexually and socially. I understand that this is not what works for many others.
In the bedroom, I act the role of dominant. This is my partner’s preference, and I’m fine with it. I’m definitely switch curious, and might be just as happy as submissive. For me it’s the setting and power play itself, not my role. These roles do not extend in any way into our vanilla life right now. What’s in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Neither of us has thus far extended D/s to outside life.
Our play in the past has been comparatively light, and strictly private. We have for several years started to explore and push our boundaries much more. We are only recently scene people, since I have felt the draw of community lately. (reference removed due to TOS #10 & 21) We now have many valued friends in the larger pansexual kink community in our area, but none of them are in a similar life stage as us. I am intrigued by this D/s-M community, and the guidance and knowledge that resides here. This guidance and knowledge would help us on our D/s journey.
I am here seeking friendship, amusement, information, titillation, encouragement. I offer the same, except maybe not much information since I have limited expertise to share.
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1 Reply
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Dragonite,
Thank you for the great introduction and I’m sure you will have some experience to share as we have a diverse group here with many varying levels of experience. Feel free to look around, read the blogs, and join in the forum discussions. We also have a good group that is on chat most of the time and are available for questions should you have any as we often have plenty ourselves. If your sub hasn’t seen it yet, subMrs is a resource for them and a great community as well. Welcome to HusDom!
All the best,
Jdh
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