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Posted by sirtoanangel on at

Well here I am. Having read through the website, I feel enlightened and much less alone in the world of Husband and wife D/s lifestyle.

I have known my wife (hereby known as “angel”) for nearly four years now. We have been married since mid 2013 and the concept of having a D/s lifestyle has been flirted with but never really taken off over the time we have been together. That was until last week when after a lot of thought and observation, I wrote a letter which was as much a contract without it being a contract as such, outlining what I expected from both perspectives as her “Sir”. She looked up at Me after reading it and with a tear in her eye said “it is beautiful”. So – it began!

After 5 days we certainly found the ups and downs involved in developing this environment between us given we both work full time, both have kids ranging in age from 15-25 who are around us more often than not. We lead busy lives and I am under no illusion about the difficulties and challenges we face. I am very keen to talk with like minded HusDoms who have to manage their D/s life whilst maintaining a family household.

Anyway, here I am and here’s to many a conversation down the track!
Cheers

sirtoanangel replied 10 years, 10 months ago 8 Members · 13 Replies
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mr-b

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SirScampi,
Welcome and congratulations on the beginning of what I believe to be a great journey! You have definitely came to the right site…the perfect place for all husDoms to learn and grow!
I look forward to many conversations as well! Good luck on this adventure with your Angel!
Take Care!
Mr. B
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SirScampi,

Welcome aboard!

Let me assure you that you are not alone in your journey.

Your statement about being alone certainly resonates with me. When I began my journey you could say that there were limited resources available for men in our unique position. Today, I believe that husDOM.com is the only resource of it’s kind available for husbands that are transitioning to Dominants, husDOM’s.

There are husDOM’s within the community at just about every stage along the journey. Everyone’s participation is what makes this community such an effective resource.

May I recommend that if your angel hasn’t registered at https://submrs.com that she registers as a member and participates with the other submissive’s there. There is a chat on my LK’s website that has become quite popular. The chat will not be visible to her without becoming a member and logging in.

I look forward to learning more about your journey!

Kindest regards,

Mr. Fox
my-darlings-sir

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Hello SirScampi,

Welcome to HuSDOM. I also had the feelings of being alone on this journey. Mr Fox has created a place for us like no other online. His advice has been a huge asset to Darling and I throughout our D/s relationship. I am quite certain that you will find HuSDOM to be a valuable source of information and support.

DS
master-grey

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SirScampi,

Welcome! You’ve come to the right place for the position you find yourself in! The forums and blogs contained within are a treasure trove of information to help guide you in your journey. As well as having other husdoms to be able to ask for some tips and tricks for helping you get through this transition.

All the best!

MG
blaik

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Welcome welcome! I don’t think I have anymore to add that hasn’t already been said. Looking forward to hearing from you on the topics across the forums.
sirtoanangel

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Thank you all for the welcome! I feel at home already.

I will be posting in the forums as I do have questions. Early days for me and my angel.

Cheers and thanks again.

SS
sirtoanangel

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No doubt this has been observed before but my lips did curl up when I looked for the button that “posts” in here 🙂

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SS
- husdom
  
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  Sir Scampi,
  
  Indeed it has!
  
  Still looking for a better solution…
  
  Regards,
  
  Mr Fox
  - sirtoanangel
    
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    Mr Fox
    
    How about just “Post”?
    
    SS
    - husdom
      
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      Sir Scampi,
      
      “post” does seem to fit the bill…
      
      That may be the answer!
      
      Mr Fox
buck-amb

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SirScampi, welcome to a great site. Lots of advice to be had here. Lots of great people also.

Enjoy your journey,
Buck
samoansir

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Welcome Sir Scampi! My Sotto and I have been at this for 3 months now. Glad to have another voice in the group. I haven’t been as active as usual the last few weeks because of a combination of full time college work and health issues. Just wanted to take a moment and say Hi and welcome to our group. There are a lot of ups and downs in the first month or two but my Sotto and I are evening out… after a bit of time it gets easier as long as you put the work and communication in necessary to make the dynamic work. Best wishes on your journey and we are all here to give and receive advice so feel free to ask anything. This forum is a great resource.

-Cheers!
-Samoan Sir
- sirtoanangel
  
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  Thanks everyone who has welcomed and helped me over the first hurdles. Lots of hurdles still to sort out but it is a journey we both must work through.
  
  My angel finally said she would look at LK’s site. I hope she goes there and embraces it, finds some value there to help her through the challenges she is facing herself. I know the reality of our space is hard for her. The single biggest challenge right now is that she misses the way she related to me as her husband more that she bargained for and maybe I need to work out what that actually is and how it can be as wonderful for her now as it was then. That’s MY challenge!
  
  Thanks again.

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