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Introducing myself and Princess
Thank you Mr Fox for creating this space. Thank you Loving Leige for sharing your contract. I can think of no better way to share who I am than to share our first contract. My Princess and I sat together and went line by line editing Loving Leige’s contract to make it our own. Thank you for sharing your contract Sir.
• Principles:
For my darling princess:
• Trust me in all things.
• Never lie or be deceitful.
• Realize that you are my darling girl and that you are not to feel shame, embarrassment, fear or belittle yourself in any way. If these feelings do arise you are to speak to me IMMEDIATELY.
• You shall be passionate in your love for me.
For me:
• I will protect and cherish you.
• I will do my best to guide and nurture you.
• I will never lie to or deceive you.
Rituals:
– Scenes/Play is to be begun in Sit Position, nude unless specified otherwise. Necklace on. If via text wrist cuffs will be on. Hair worn in ponytail unless you request other style.
• Each morning Princess is to text “Good Morning my Prince” upon waking when we are apart. Each evening (once home and after yoga practice) when apart a text “I am yours to command” will be sent with a nude selfie in Sit Position. If on menstrual cycle text only.
• Each evening when we are together Princess is to present herself nude (menstrual cycle off) under her robe in the Kneeling position in front of Prince. Princess is to check with her Prince prior to this and ask if there is any special dress or other requirements.
• When either of us desires it, we will schedule, within 12 hours, formal Downtime to discuss any challenges or issues we feel in our D/S-M dynamic. Downtime is free to discuss anything openly without repercussions. Respectful conversations only.
– Expectations:
• Refer to me as My Prince or Sir when we are alone during play or scenes.
• I shall be a gentleman at all times.
• I shall stay with you in public, not leaving your general vicinity unless agreed upon.
• You will wait for me to open/close car doors.
• Wear underclothing or lack thereof per my choosing as befits your chosen work attire during the week.
• Kegel exercises with ben wa balls inserted will be performed daily.
• Anal training should be accomplished a minimum of once a week.
• Keep your finger and toe nails polished.
• Pamper yourself with massages, etc on a regular basis.
• Scheduling playtime or when D/s is in effect. During evenings after you are home for the night.
– Contract applicable for 30 days from signing.Rules:
• Do not challenge my authority.
• Only pleasure yourself or orgasm with my permission.
• Wear a necklace or other piece of jewelry of my approval each day as befits your chosen attire during the week or my pleasure otherwise.
-We will use Green, Yellow and Red as safe words. Using Red all play stops. Ignoring Red by Dominant will nullify this contract immediately.
• Discipline shall be non corporal. To include writing assignments, corner time and closet time.
• If Dominant has had more than 2 alcoholic beverages she may remove necklace and contract is void for next 24 hours.
Closet time discipline process:
1. -SILENCE….(length of time <20 minutes>)
(Use a common egg timer that ticks rather loudly)
(Upon failure to remain in place and silent EACH step is taken progressively)
2. REMOVAL OF CLOTHING (restart timer)
3. FORMAL KNEEL POSITION (restart timer)
4. BANISHMENT FROM DOM PRESENCE FOR 2 hours
5. BANISHMENT FROM DOM PRESENCE FOR 24 hoursLoving Prince
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6 Replies
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Welcome HerPrince!
Thank you for taking the time to share your contract with all of us!
And while I agree that rules and rituals are very important for a solid foundation, I would just like to recommend and suggest to you that you keep it simple if you are just starting out. (If you have been D/s for a while, please disregard this message) Having so many rules and rituals at an early stage of your D/s could lead to unforeseen adversities. I am speaking from my humble experiences….My Sweetness and myself started out with a page of rules and rituals, and since have narrowed them to only a handful.
I do wish you the best of luck on your journey and look forward to hearing more about you and your Princess as well as chatting with you in the future!
Take Care!
Mr. B
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Welcome to the den!
Glad to see you’ve already gotten some great advice from other Doms.
Look forward to Seeing you in chat.
The Hunter
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Welcome HerPrince.
Thank you for sharing your contract and details. I am also learning that less = more and have started to pair things down significantly as well. But I love all the ideas.
SirHamlet
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HerPrince,
Welome Aboard!
From your introduction I can sense that you are a loving Dominant and that you are going to be a great addition to our community.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Thank you Mr. B and all for the warm welcome. What I loved about having the “Expectations” category is anything can be thrown in and test driven without disciplinary action if not accomplished. I found it interesting that I kept the detailed rules to a minimum but she wanted very detailed rules. Mostly I talked her out of them but she demanded things like rituals and punishment process be written down.
We have been married for 15 years so I know when to agree. We are starting not really from a vanilla standpoint but maybe mocha would be a good description.
If anyone is still reading this and just starting out like we are I would like to point out this process should be fun. We have had more laughs while incorporating the wait for me to open/ close car doors expectation than we have had in years.
Thank you again for all of yours posts, they are deeply appreciate.
HerPrince -
I like your closet time ideas. I am thinking of incorporating some of them into corner time for my love.
I also like your mocha description… O/ours has always been described at pistachio! XD
Have a great time learning about each other (and trust me… there’s so much more to learn when you start along this path)
Regards
HerSir
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