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I have been checking out the site for a few days. I am very new to this whole thing. My wife of 12 years approached me with this idea of her wanting to be dominated. I had no idea what she was talking about until I began to research this what turns out to be a life style. We have two children, girls 9 and 12, so getting stared with this has proven to be challenging. I have had several in depth conversations and have begun to keep a journal of our wants and dislikes, or our limits. I think this site is really going to help us discover our passion for each other again, at least I hope so.
For now, she wants to start out with this being a bedroom adventure, something to spice things up. After our girls were born, I kind of got into the role of Daddy and failed to pay enough attention to being a husband. So, we have both jumped into this opportunity to discover each other in this new adventure. My Queen is a bit of a fly by the seat of her pants, lets just do it kind of woman. I tend to analyze things making sure every thing is set up to enjoy it. She is spontaneous with out think. I am the opposite so from what I have read thus far, setting the different scenes is a good fit for me. I would really appreciate any input anyone can share with us to enjoy this new adventure.
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Welcome. Glad you found us. Read Mr Fox’s blogs oldest to new. There is an archive link to the right.
This is exciting stuff. Enjoy the bedroom. There are great blogs on how to take control in the bedroom. Make it your own but read up. See where the paralllels are. There is no perfect way only what works for you and yours. Make it your own. Go as slow as you need to. She’s had months to think about this most likely. You just got slammed. Enjoy the journey.
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