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Intro
Greetings,
I am a married husDOM. My wife and I are pretty new to this lifestyle but explore the practice at home. While I am leading her to this lifestyle, she is following well but need improvement. We don’t have any polished experience practicing D/s but I read up a lot and found this community which shares great contributions. I have enjoyed reading some of your posts in some of the forums. I am interested in continuing my education to become a better Dom and to make my wife a better sub. We don’t have any friends in the D/s lifestyle and I struggle to set and maintain the rules to my sub. While I try to maintain my Dominant role I see my self stumbling in and out. We both are busy professionals and have only so much time every day. I would love to learn from others here in the community their experience and advise.
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6 Replies
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Welcome Mr. P!
First, let me say thank you for sharing. Also, the fact you are here looking for advice and help says a lot about the Dom you already are and will become!
Please continue to read all the forum posts as well as the posts by Mr. Fox…as there is a wealth of information in them. Also, please feel free to start your own thread with whatever questions you may have. All the Doms started where you are and are more than willing to help.
Please introduce your wife(sub) to LK’s website https://submrs.com if she has not already registered on there. That is a great site for her to learn as well as ask questions and get advice on whatever questions she may have.
The only advice I would give when it comes to rules is….Keep it simple at first! The more rules you have in place, the harder it is for you to monitor them. Your time would be better spent building a solid foundation with just a few rules (IMO). As time goes on, you can and probably will add more.
Again, thank you for sharing!
Take Care!
Mr. B
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Mr P,
Welcome aboard!
You have come to the right place to find information and D/s friends for that matter. Everyone here on husDOM is helpful and approachable so do not hesitate to ask a lot of questions.
I look forward to learning more about you as you continue along your journey as part of our community.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Good afternoon,
My wife and I are pretty new in our D/s journey as well, but the insights and information I have found here have been exceptionally helpful and as has already been said, everyone is very easy to talk to. I look forward to hearing more about your journey and wish you luck!
Peace,
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Thank you all! I appreciate the warm welcome! I will follow the advise to keep the rules simple at first. This seems to be a good start to improve things. I have looked at https://submrs.com and will tell my wife to introduce herself there. Looking forward to learn more here and sharing more about our journey.
Regards,
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Mr. P,
Following on what my fellow HusDoms have already said, Welcome.
Rules are indeed quite tricky. The real challenge is that they must be for a reason and you MUST follow through on them. Do not let them slide or you will leave her wondering if this is important to you or not.
Personally I would recommend you focus on rituals. These help both of you stay in your mindset and can be very reassuring. For example, my darling girl kneels every morning for me to place her collar/necklace on her. This is a loving moment that helps us both.
As stated before, welcome to the site. We’ve all been in the same situation you are and all working diligently to maintain our mindsets and those of our subs. This is truly a wonderful and growing experience that I’m sure you both will cherish as time passes.
Loving Liege
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Mr P,
Welcome aboard, as you can see this is a friendly place with lots of sage advice to be found. Everyone is very approachable so don’t be afraid to message us if you have questions or post a new thread if the subject isn’t already covered. Most of us really like to talk about our lifestyle and share what we have learned.Stay Knotty,
Mr Stone
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