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Intro
My story bares resemblance to so many of the other introductions as well as Mr. Fox’s story. My baby girl became my wife August of last year after having dated for 6 years. Baby girl has been the best women any man could ask for including her support and devotion during an almost 4 year deployment to Afghanistan with my company, that only recently ended last May.
After our honeymoon I had returned to Afghanistan and we, as usual, started counting the days till we would see each other again. During this time she read the 50 Shades of Grey Series. In the last 30 days leading up to Christmas, she approached me with her desire to experiment with a D/s relationship. Like most, I had always strived to make her feel equal, so I was at a lost. I had not read the 50 shades of Grey books, nor did I understand the premise. I told my wife I needed to get a better understanding of what she was asking for before we could move forward. She was very excited about my willingness which added to my motivation to figure out exactly what she was asking for.
Needless to say my initial research seemed to have no bearing on a married relationship. I then found HusDom in December of 2013 and was relieved to see the very intuitive way Mr. Fox laid out the D/s relationship as it applied to a Married couple.
I proceeded to read all of Mr. Fox’s post leading up to seeing my baby girl for Christmas in Vienna. Our time in Vienna was magical, not only was this our first Christmas married, but we were back in the city we had gotten engaged, and we were exploring a new side of our relationship. We decided at the end of the trip that we would continue to pursue a D/s-M relationship after thoroughly enjoying our time in Vienna.
One of the things my wife and I have always done while I was deployed was talk every morning and every night via video. This had a very positive effect on our ability to communicate with each other and that communication has stayed strong in our relationship. After Vienna, D/s and what was the next step for us dominated our conversations. She was excited to see how we could progress this new side of our relationship forward despite our physical separation. I started taking a dominat role in the decision making to start, she would provide input but the decision was mine to make, and even this simple act helped our relationship strengthen.
After returning to Afghanistan there was some turbulent changes in the command structure that required me to remain away until last May. In May I was offered a job with my company that would still have travel, but would base me at home in the US. I jumped at the opportunity and was home by the end of the month excited to start the next phase of life with my beautiful baby girl, and finally to really have the opportunity to explore our D/s relationship further.
After coming home we tried some different things to get into the D/s mindsets, but it never seemed to take hold, regardless of our intent. We talk about it frequently but are unsure how to get to where we ultimately want to be, which is something close to a full time D/s-M. Don’t get me wrong, we are very happy and I would not trade the time I have gotten with her over the last few months for anything. There is nothing more valuable than getting to spend time with the person you love. I do however know that she has the desire to be dominated and she has entrusted me with fulfilling that desire. Part of this was not having a name for her, only recently settling on baby girl.
I had to leave again on a business trip that has now had me gone for four weeks. I have taken this time to finally register on HusDom (which I should have done months ago) and start to invest time in to our D/s relationship. I hope to be returning home in the next week or two and have a better idea and understanding how to grow our D/s-M relationship and give my baby girl the dominance she deserves.
I look forward to learning from all of you and thank you for taking the time to read my lengthy introduction.
Regards,
Mr. L
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Mr L.
Welcome aboard!
You have just taken a big step in progressing as husDOM… Registering as a husDOM will grant you access to the Dominant Chat. The chat has proven to be a valuable resource to many along their journeys.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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