Intro

[mr-b]

Welcome erinsDom!

First an foremost, let me say Congratulations to you and your subbie! Marriage is a big commitment and as if that wasn’t big enough, you are wanting to make another one by committing to a 24/7 d/s lifestyle! That is awesome!

You have come to the right place to learn…just like all the other Doms on here! Mr. Fox has given us Doms a great place to learn, share, and grow! His LK also has a great place for your subbie…it is LittleKaninchen.com. Hopefully your subbie has already been there..if not, please direct her to it!

Once again..I just want to say welcome and I look forward to future chats!

Take Care!

Mr. B

[erinsdom]

Thank you Mr. B,

I have looked at LittleKaninchen.com and have told my subbie to introduce herself there. These both seem like well rounded communities. They are also the only communities we have ever decided to be a part of. Up until this point we have been doing this all on our own. However, we have come to a point where we both want to “step it up a notch”. I am beginning to think that a daily ritual or some routines would be a good way to keep both of us in this mindset. I think my main issue is keeping our dynamic in the forefront of my mind and not allowing myself to let my career or even daily life for that matter, take precedence. However as with most things in this life, that is much easier said than done.

I very much appreciate your expeditious response and would like to take this opportunity to point out the fact that you are the only other Dom I have ever had the pleasure of speaking with. Now that I think about it, that seems odd and yet refreshing all at the same time.

Regards,

erinsDom

[mr-b]

erinsDom,

Keeping it to the forefront is very important and you have already begun that path by joining this site! And from this point forward you won’t have to feel like you both are all alone! There is always someone willing to help on this site as well as LK’s.

There are different posts on here about rituals and routines..please take some time and read them. They are full of valuable info! But in the event that vanilla life takes over…as it sometimes does…do not feel down..refocus and move forward and continue to “step it up a notch”!

Best of luck on your journey!

The pleasure has been all mine!

Take Care!

Mr. B

[Daddys_Home]

erinsDom,

Welcome to husDom! You will indeed find a lot of good information here as well as a good community. If you can’t find the information you’re looking for please post a thread. There are no stupid questions and we are all learning.

My suggestion for you right off is strictly gleaned from the advice I have received here, be consistent and communicate, communicate, communicate. If you search for downtime here you will find some excellent explanations that I personally have used to great affect.

Other than that, keep the rules simple and follow thru on them. Nothing spells disaster worse than making rules and then not caring enough to follow up.

I hope to see you in the chat this evening.

Loving Liege

[mr-stone]

erinsDom,

Welcome to the community. If you haven’t yet, pay particular attention to the “Dominants Discussion.” This section has many examples and ideas for maintaining D/s through out the day for those of us are working professionals (pretty much all of us).

I also listed some of my favorite blog posts in the comments section of “Newbie Chat” under the blog posts.

I think you will also find we are all very open and honest with what we have found works and doesn’t work for us.

Cheers,
Mr Stone

[husdom]

ErinsDoms,

Welcome Aboard!

Best wishes on your journey…

Mr Fox