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  • I am new to D/S

    Posted by bennett83 on at

    Hello to all,

    I am very new to the D/S world and it has been a forbidden thing for me due to what I was taught growing up. Me and my girlfriend had seen the fifty shades of grey and I really enjoyed the movie. I had always had thoughts of doing different things but I thought I was being weird. Once I saw the movie it opened up my eyes. After doing some research and my girlfriend which is my sub really likes and wants the D/S relationship as do I. We have made a few rules and starting off small for now and then gradually will add different things as times goes on. I sometimes get distracted and I need some guidance on how to start and become the very best Dom I can be for her. I need to know where and what to read here to learn the right ways of doing things. So my question is where do I start?

    Thank you in advance,
    Mr J

    husdom replied 9 years, 5 months ago 3 Members · 3 Replies
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  • Unknown Member

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    at

    Hello Mr. J,
    I’m one of the moderator team here on HusDom and welcome!

    Your question of, “Where do I start?” Can be answered very simply; Its starts right here, today!

    Please try not to get nervous about speaking in our chat rooms, everyone is friendly and willing to help. All of the Doms on here have made mistakes and face difficulties from time to time, you’re not alone! We are from all walks of life and different countries, however, we are all joined by one common lifestyle. If you’re a bit apprehensive to start, don’t worry, take your time to look around. Read All of the forums and blogs as the weeks go by. Write down questions that pop up because you’ll have many! If you could find the time to review our Terms of Service that would be great; they are important to us, as are you. Any problems, either PM me or ask one of the community!

    Again, Welcome Mr.J and I look forward to chatting with you soon.

    HL

  • bennett83

    Member
    at

    Hello HL,

    Thank you for welcoming me to this website and community. I appreciate the advice and I will be looking at the forums and I will be taking my time with this new lifestyle. My sub and girlfriend is apart of the LK website. I appreciate the advice and I also read the terms of service as well.

    Thank you again
    Mr J

  • husdom

    Administrator
    at

    Mj,

    Welcome Aboard,

    After watching many begin their journey’s into the world of D/s-M, you are wise to begin your journey taking it slow. It is very important to establish a solid foundation.

    I look forward to chatting with you in the future.

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

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