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Hi There
Hi I’m Kj and my wife sub is currently unnamed.
So after only recently discovering my own desire to be a Dom and the almost disastrous impact this had on my marriage. (lack of communication my side).
Myself and my wife have decided to have a crack at a d/s relationship. So after a day of googling I have ended up here. And have learnt more in the day I have been a member than I would have previously thought possible.
I would just like to Thank you for this. As a couple we have decided to sign up / watch both MrFox and LK.
We are still toying with a starting point and haven not established any real rules yet and I am really interested in pointers going forward.
Thank you in advance.
Kj.
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And I apologize for all my grammatical errors. I am writing this via phone and the website doesn’t always want to play nicely!
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Hello Kj,
Welcome to HusDom. You have come to the right place to start your D/s-M relationship. Mr. Fox and the other HusDoms here have all been in your position and you will find that most have had missteps along the way. The important thing to remember is just what I read in your first post. Communication is key and the lack of it is disastrous. That you already recognize that you made the mistake and accepted the responsibility is also very important. You will be responsible for everything going forward. As HusDom it will ultimately be up to you to decide how to move forward and what the relationship and dynamic will be. This will take time, patience and lots and lots of communication. DO NOT RUSH! You are committing yourselves to one another like never before. Talk, listen, listen more and keep listening. She will open up like never before but only if you are able to hear her and understand her needs. She will also need to know yours. Be clear to her. Remember, the big word here is COMMUNICATION.
Enjoy the journey and Good day,
My Darlings Sir
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Welcome Kj!
You have definitely found the right place, just as My Darlings Sir has said. This site is great for husDOMs at all levels, whether new or experienced.
And as far as rules go…while they are important, I believe that they are not a priority. They will come in time and they will change in time. So don’t worry too much about them.
Please continue to read the older posts and do not hesitate to ask any of the husDOMs any question. They are all willing to help if they can…and they can! Also, feel free to start your own post about whatever you may want to know or ask.
Best of luck to you and your wife on your journey and what I believe will strengthen the love you have for her like you never imagined.
I look forward to chatting soon.Take care!
Mr. B
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Thanks I haven’t done this much reading since I was in school lol. Its fascinating trying to peice together what to start with. And I’m guessing that will be my first real post tommorow.
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Kj,
Let me extend my welcome as well sir. Like yourself I have found something very special and unique here.
I hope you find information here that helps you on your journey and of course feel free to post any questions even if you think it’s a repeat, there is always something new to share and learn
Loving Liege
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KJ,
Welcome aboard!
I am elated to learn about you, your submissive and your journey.
I would like to highlight something that My Darling’s Sir mentioned in his comment, we have all made mistakes and will continue to do so… It is what we learn from our mistakes and the importance of recognizing those mistakes that separate us.
The community in which you find yourself has been created to allow you access to others that have had similar experiences.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Welcome lemonwater,
I’m glad that you found husDom. I was in a similar position not to long ago (about a week now). Reading and chatting here on husDom helped me figure out how to get the ball rolling.
I’ve made mistakes and I know there will be many more in this life changing journey. Best of luck to you and your wife/sub.
Master Khal
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