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Hello Im Secret_Dom
Hello All,
My wife and I have been married since 2008 and until recently we have a “normal” life. My wife then decided to read 50 Shades of Grey and then moved onto another 20-30 book on the sub/dom topic. She has expressed a definite interest in the sub/dom roles during sex and other intimate times, but not in our everyday life. So I was looking for a site where I could learn from and discuss with others. In our everyday live my wife is a type A personality who likes to make decisions and be in charge, but she has expressed interest in being dominated sexually. I am the type of more or less goes with the flow and is laid back, so being a dominating force in the bedroom will be a change for me. I find it exciting and interesting to be a dominant in the bedroom, but there will be learning curve. -
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Hi Secret Dom, welcome to husDom. Much of the forum discussions will be useful, however bear in mind that many of the posts relate to 24/7 D/s relationships, so some of the assumptions made in the posts may not be any good for you. Also bear in mind that what works for one may not work for another so don’t feel you have to do everything that someone else does – choose the bits you like or that work for you.
Don’t forget to join the chats in husDom – participants can give you some great info too.
Regards
HerSir
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Welcome to the Den!
There is a wide range of Doms on the site and there is deffintely information that will help you in developing your ‘inner Dom’. Many start in the bedroom and transition to a full time 24/7 D/s as their relationship and D/s dynamic develops over time.
Have a look around and check things out. Most start with the blogs archive on the right side and go back to the beginning. There is good information on both things to try and things to avoid. We all have walked a similar path and are here to help if needed.
Also, if you have a particular issue or concern, be sure to ask on chat (Fox’s Den). The Dominant Chat is a full open chat with some intense topics discussed. The Apprentice Chat is a little more laid back for the beginning Dom.
Welcome again and hope to see you in Chat.
The Hunter -
Secret Dom,
Welcome to husDOM,
That is precisely how I began as well…
Your journey may encompass more than you could have ever imagined…
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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