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Hello Everyone!
Hello,
I am new to this lifestyle, but my wife has been in other D/s relationships before. I have been wanting to do this for awhile, but my biggest worry has been physically hurting my wife. I think this site will really help me understand how to accomplish what I am wanting.
Thanks,
Mac25 -
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Howdy Mac, glad you found us. I’m 6’4 and 250. My sub is 5’2 so she says. I’m thinking maybe 4’11. 🙂
I’ve not broken her yet. It did take me a while to get past the mind set that she wanted a bit of pain and of course grew up as Men don’t hit Women. And we don’t.
However, the application of a flogger or hand spanking when in play and in an erotic manner, is another thing. It’s consensual and she loves it. She cums hard when I apply a bit of pain. I an not a true sadist. I enjoy giving her pleasure but I don’t want to beat her ass just to get my rocks off. I just play her like a guitar.
I had to separate what is consensual fun from true violence if that makes any sense.
Enjoy the ride.
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Mac25,
Welcome aboard…
Being a Dominant doesnt mean that you simply know everything. Be sure to ask your submissive many questions along your journey in downtime, as she will be a wealth of information. Since she has already experienced being a submissive before she should be comfortable with knowing and articulating what it is that she desires.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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