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Hello everyone
Hi everyone
I am very new to this scscene but totally engulfed by it. Just recently on a long train ride l was putting my life into perspective. Something has always been missing. I knew it was sex wise but just didn’t know what. The woman l am with is a good lover butneeds direction. I started to think snd whenever l havefantasies l am always in charge. It hit me like a truck. I have been trying so hard to be a gentle lover l had actually been denying myself. I know exactly what l am now and hopefully l can have a great sex life too.
I am very lucky because once it clicked l assessed my gf of 13 years and she is a definate submissive. Once she got over the shock my god has she got into it. My shy girl now actively sends me photos and videos. She calls me master and we have made some rules.
Life is becoming great l just need to find where l the bdsm genre scale we fit. Sorry about the long intro 🙂 -
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Sorry about the typos on doing this on a phone. My big fingers hate little keyboards
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MasterNevet,
Your discovery and journey have been wonderful. It is nice that your girlfriend has so easily taken to her role in the dynamic.
My suggestion regarding finding where the two of you fit into the BDSM genre is to not even consider it. Simply allow yourselves to develop naturally into who and what you want to become.
I look forward to chatting with you and getting to know you better.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Thanks Mr. Fox. What a great blog you have created here. Thankyou for giving us a platform good sir.
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It is my pleasure sir…
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“My suggestion regarding finding where the two of you fit into the BDSM genre is to not even consider it. Simply allow yourselves to develop naturally into who and what you want to become.”
“Speaking of paths, try not to box everything into labeled boxes. Your dynamic, however it may look, is yours to make, is unique, and will change and grow as you discover what works for you.
My best advice is to take from here what works for you, discard what doesnt, and enjoy the ride. There is no destination, only the walk.”
Very fine suggestions from Mr. Fox and DOM, IMO. I’m sure you’ll find this community invaluable. Welcome!
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Thankyou gentlemen. I guess my need to box everything up is l do love to research my hobbies. Although due to an old work place accident l can no longer read alot of material the internet is such a fantastic place to find information. My babygirl is showing so much signs of growth it is amazing me. We have gone from “l won’t do that” to “if u want to do that it will have to be when there is no kids around”. Sex when vanilla was at night before bed. Now its open season. She even suprised me the other night by coming into our lounge only wearing a doona…..happy happy days
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