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Hello All
I’m MasterCJP and my sub is hispooker. We are new to this but so far it is going great. Our first scene is tomorrow night and hispooker is very excited. We’re both in our late 30’s and have been married for 15 years. We have 5 children and are learning how to work this around their needs. I was intrigued and excited when hispooker approached me. I’m looking forward to any guidance, support, and advice from any of you seaoned Doms. Thank you.
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Master CJP,
Welcome aboard,
I am elated to hear that everything is going well for you both.
During your first scene keep in mind that you don’t have to shift the earth on its axis. A simple blindfold is a great beginning.
Don’t introduce more than one new item into your repotoire at a time.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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Well we had our first scene last night. It was awkward at first to say the least but ended very well. At work I’m a natural Dom, however, at home it has been a different story and so this new role I’m playing is different. Play comes so natural for hispooker and I and is very enjoyable. Also, in my opinion, we probably rushed to have a scene too soon which most likely led to the awkwardness. We are definately going to take it slow and just enjoy our new roles and focus on each other before we plan a new scene.
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MasterCJP,
I am glad that your scene ended very well. That is the part that you will both remember.
If I may, what was the awkwardness?
This information may help other members as they attempt their first scene.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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I think the awkwardness was that I wasn’t being as verbal as I needed to be and maybe wasn’t comfortable as a Dom in the scene along with the pressure of making it perfect. Because of this hispooker was having trouble letting go and letting me lead. We stopped the scene and had an emotional talk then regrouped and ended up playing instead. We both agreed it was too soon and are going to spend more time exploring our roles before committing to a scene. In the meantime we can still have fun playing.
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MasterCJP,
Excellent communication sir…
There are a few suggestions that I usually make to Dominants prior to them conducting their first scene. The suggestions all center around keeping it simple and fun.
Great feedback,
Mr Fox
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Welcome to the site. The verbal part of our bedroom play was initially quite tough for me. I still have a to focus on it. It does not come naturally. However I have found that I can just about induce an orgasm with my words now and that is quite a powerful feeling. Rewarding my efforts.
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