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  • Posted by her-ulfric on at

    Hello all, I guess I will do a quick get to know me and intro. I’m in my early 30’s as well as my wife, parents of one, and geek to many :). She has been interested in dom/sub for a while and she asked me if I would be interested in it. After much discussion I agreed and we are just starting our journey into this. My wife has more info on this subject than I do, so I’m learning as much as I can (reading books, forums, and all) I have already come up with a scene that I would like to do “which made her blush” that seems to be going in correct direction. More planning before I attempt it though. I apologize if what i say comes out as kinda off the wall or silly at times I am a Computer Geek by nature and job and a very not take charge type person. Entering into dom/sub will push my own personal boundaries and hopefully get me to take charge more often 🙂

    husdom replied 10 years, 8 months ago 3 Members · 2 Replies
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  • mr-b

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    Her Ulfric,

    Welcome and thank you for sharing! That is awesome that you have already come up with a scene. Don’t stress yourself about trying to make it perfect….the great thing about it is that you will be able to do it over and over! Practice makes perfect!

    I believe this journey has had all of us pushing our personal boundaries at some point in time…and will continue to do so!

    Enjoy your journey and best of luck!

    Take Care!

    Mr. B

  • husdom

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    Her Ulfric,

    Welcome Aboard!

    Reading and educating yourself is a great way to begin! Become a husDOM does take a lot of work and commitment on the Dominants part as well as the submissive’s part.

    I would agree with Mr B regarding the scene, dont stress yourself out too much in the beginning. There is no need to hurry into something that you are uncomfortable with. Nothing will absorb your Dominance as much as making mistakes. For your first few scenes I would recommend keeping it simple.

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

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