After having a huge spat with my wife about how she doesn’t want me drinking in bars without her (even though I as if she will go with me almost every time) and her extreme jealousy of me while I beg to have sex with her, maybe 6-8 times a year for the last 20 years, it all came to a head. I stopped going to bars without her but I quickly assume the roll as her Sexually Dominate Spouse, something I frankly didn’t know I had in me! I just kind of happened and when I realized she needed to be submissive as much as I needed to dominate her, an astonishing thing happened. She use to complain and downgrade me, now she wouldn’t dare attempt to. I use to ask her for sex just to here her say no. I don’t ask anymore I just take her and move her where I want her and she cooperates. I don’t allow the petty games she use to play anymore and our relationship is somehow blossoming.
25 years of marriage to just just now discover how good it can be for us both. I wish I were still younger because I’ve discovered that being a Dom is not easy work. In fact it can be down right tiring, mentally and physically!