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Hello!
Hello, fellow dominants!
My name is Thom and have been married to my wife, amy, for almost 9 years now. We got into the lifestyle a few months ago because my wife stated that she wanted me to “tie her up and torture her”. I was more than happy to oblige! It was the last piece of the puzzle, as my prior relationships before being married were D/s, as I was a submissive to a woman on 24/7 basis, but when she let me go, I wanted a vanilla partner. I suppressed my love for power exchange, whether it be on the s side or the D side (especially now!). We are still trying to get our hold on how we want our household to be. Everything is new, exciting, and fun!
I am here because I want to engage more with fellow dominant husbands and how they lead their homes. The BDSM scene in my hometown is pretty large, but my wife and I felt like sore thumbs with the community. When you enjoy monogamy and are a pretty conservative couple, just kinky with each other, you feel like you are in the minority. They just want to play, and I know how to do that. I want to learn how to lead, encourage, and nurture my wife in her submission. That is something we are not getting. I hope that I can get some encouragement, or be an encouragement, here.
Thanks!
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2 Replies
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Wow Thom,
Great story and Welcome to the community. I think you will find the help and support you are looking for here.
Hope to see you in chat,Thanatoi
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Thom,
I just want to begin throwing out Top Gun quotes…
“Talk to me Goose!”
Alright I will stop now…
I want to learn how to lead, encourage, and nurture my wife in her submission.
Interesting observation regarding your local environment and your needs.
I believe that you will be very satisfied with the camaraderie and support that you will find here on husDOM™.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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