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  • Posted by stoick on at

    My wife came to me with a new idea to introduce into our life, a D/s relationship. I have to admit that I’ve never stayed the Dominant in our relationship, I think I’ve always ran from it. I was curious, so I said yes. Then she knelt at my feet, just that act alone was powerful for me. We’ve been married for 10 years and she has never submitted like that physically or mentally to me. She has finally told me that she doesn’t like being dominant at all . I like what I’ve seen, I just need help getting some traction with it.

    I need all the help I can get.

    my-darlings-sir replied 9 years, 10 months ago 5 Members · 4 Replies
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  • dominus

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    Welcome to husDOM!

    You have found a great community to help you get on your feet. HusDOM is a great website and geared to a D/s-M dynamic with many wonderfull ideas to help you along your journey. I look forward to chatting and helping you with any questions you may have.

    Sir

  • husdom

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    Machinist007,

    WOW!

    She knelt at your feet… Truly humbling and amazing…

    My next question… Is she already a member at my lk’s website? I ask because the kneeling and asking for Dominance is right out of my lk’s handbook and I have never heard of anyone else suggesting it before. lk has had to defend this position many times in the past.

    You have done a wonderful job of describing how you felt when she knelt for you. It is a powerful unforgettable moment…

    Welcome aboard and I look forward to chatting with you soon…

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

  • djb

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    I too have encountered a very similar act from my wife of 16 years and Just as you described. Honestly, I let my wife have the reins for most of our marriage; as Mr. Fox and I have had the pleasure of speaking about. I have to admit, that moment in our relationship, after all these years and her strong personality; was epic, a true humble gift. One I have learned was her opening her inner core and sole to me. Getting married, buying the house and having the kids came natural. Now, she has willingly given me her trust for she is vulnerable and needs me to protect her.

    As you read and fellowship through this community, you will see this is an amazing and encouraging site, for the both of you. As of right now, like most nights we enjoy downtime sitting across from each other on our separate sites, growing together.

    Best wishes.

  • my-darlings-sir

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    My darling knelt at my feet this morning. She wrapped herself around my leg and cried. After more than a year, this is still one of the single most touching moments that we have. When she not only submits, but surrenders to me. She is often at my feet, every morning in fact. And while these are special times, there are these moments such as this morning. Moments when she is so open and vulnerable and I give her the safety and security of my control. These are the really amazing moments. When the world melts away, time stands still and the tears stream down. When there is nothing else that matters but the love between a beautiful submissive and her strong Dom.

    Welcome to HusDom and congratulations on your new journey.

    My Darlings Sir

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