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Hello
I am new to this, joined this for insight, ideas and advice. Our back story is complicated as I am sure many others are. Wife and I have been married 17yrs, second for both. I think this part is important to who we are today. We have raised five children, mine and hers, together we have none. Two are college grads, one is a heroin addict and we lost a son while he was in the army, another manages a store. One of our daughters was molested(he went to prison). Finally my kitten was molested as a child and lived in a abusive home. Please don’t take this as a downer, we have had many good times as well. Our sex life has been shaky at times because of her abuse. I have never pushed as she deserves the best from me so NO happened a lot. We have been vanilla until last yr when I got her a bondage book and she was interested in experimenting. D/s sex has been the best we have had together. Right now the D/s is bedroom only. It has at times been very D/s but I have been afraid of taking it too far because of her past. I of course would like to take things to a 24/7 trial for 60 or 90 days so it is slow and steady, trying to push a little at a time because she is not ready to give me a lot of control even though I am the family leader. Thanks for reading
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Hello Mr Magnar,
Welcome to HusDOM. Thank you for sharing about yourself and your kitten. I believe that you will find that the D/s lifestyle will give you the ability to be open, honest and trusting in ways that will be helpful to both of you. It has certainly done just that for me and My Darling.
Again welcome and congratulations on your journey. Enjoy it.
Good day,
My Darlings Sir
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Mr Magnar,
Welcome aboard…
It sounds as though you and your submissive have already experienced many ebbs and flows throughout your vanilla journey.
I actually suggest to others to begin their D/s relationship in the bedroom first and progress naturally outside in due time. I personally believe that this is a good approach for sound footing.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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