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Greetings from Northern California
I’ve been reading this site since April, my wife and I have been toying around with the idea of a D relationship at my request. She’s slowly getting into the role. We came to a formal agreement about a month ago. I’d been experimenting with this lifestyle for years before I met my wife, however during our time together, almost 10 years, I had become extremely board with our vanilla life and was yearning for more. She graciously accepted my offer and is now trying to get comfortable with her decision. I can tell at time she’s grapples with her submission but so far its been amazing, frustrating and at times challenging. I need to continue to work on my guidance and leadership in this new realm as I find myself at times getting disappointed with her not following her commitments to me when we entered into this relationship, however I keep telling myself this is new to her also, and it will take time to turn those commitments into rituals that are strictly followed. So I’m looking for some advise as we continue down this fantastic journey and to help with both of our transitions. I’m looking forward to connecting with everyone.
Cheers, Sir K -
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Hello SlyDom, and Welcome. Encourage your wife to look into SubMrs. My Mira joined SubMrs and it has open communication on the Dom/sub-M life style between us. She gets on occasionally in chat and spends most of her time laughing and Giggleing.Most of us have been in the same boat as you and your wife. Life’s demands and the ebb and flow of life. Take what ever opportunities you can to practice the life style.
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Welcome. Glad you found us!
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SlyDom,
Welcome aboard!
I’ve been reading this site since April
What took you so long? lol…
Look forward to chatting with you soon.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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