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Greetings from Daddy Weatherman
Greetings,
I… am a work in progress. I spent most of my life believing one thing about myself and never understanding why I felt so conflicted and unsatisfied inside. Most of my discovery has been over the last five years, but I have been aware of the lifestyle and dabbling for about twenty years. I have had the great fortune to meet the woman of my dreams, my wife and babygirl, and together we are growing into the life we want to have.
For the longest time I have struggled to reconcile how I feel inside with what I was taught to be outside. My wife has helped me with understanding myself and my needs because she has been going through the same struggle with her own. Most recently we have discovered that the source of much of the challenges in our relationship has been our failure to understand the need for power exchange between us, her need to serve and my need to lead. As that comes into line more and more we have discovered the rabbit hole that is living in Dominance and submission and the stunning realization that it goes far deeper than we believed.
While I wouldn’t say I am inexperienced, most of my exposure has been to the knowledge and techniques of being in the lifestyle (mostly what I would call “bedroom Dominance”), and less the practical experience of living it day-to-day with my wife. We are now committed to moving forward in our life in a way that satisfies us and allows us to be fulfilled as ourselves. This is why I am now reaching out and joining the greater community, so I can continue to grow my knowledge and seek out advice and mentoring. As with anything I apply myself to, I want to master this path in life and I recognize how important it is to have people to speak to, ask questions of, and seek guidance from those with greater or different experiences.
I hope here to find a community that will further my understanding of this lifestyle, not just the practical techniques, but the mental and emotional understanding that is necessary to feel complete in my life and allow me to feel confident and fulfilled in my path and in my role as a Dominant.
I look forward to learning and growing and making connections with you all.
Daddy Weatherman
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