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Greetings and salutations
Well where to begin….
After many years of self suppression and confusion I have found the most amazing submissive who was in similar situation.We have started on our journey together of a fuctional D/s relationship.
Currently I am struggling a little in the setting of tasks/rules/boundaries and rituals so that she has clearly defined goals and guidelines as I struggle mentally at times and after years of containment it’s difficult to know exactly where to begin.I don’t want to abuse the trust she has placed in me by making mistakes.
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3 Replies
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Good Morning MrDadley
Congratulations on you and your submissive finding one another – it is amazing how one can feel so empty and alone until that other half completes us.
I will say from my own experience that you have found the right site and community to provide guidance and comradery through our own dynamic journeys.
I would recommend that you take some time to start with the ‘Where to begin’ drop down menu at the top and read through Mr. Fox’s sections on Fundamentals, Communication, Mindset and scenes. It will give you a good pulse on the information and community he and his lk have created for all of our benefit. I would then recommend you start looking at Mr. Fox’s blogs – there are literally years of information here and you are sure to find some amazing information here that will help you with the areas you highlight above. As you feel comfortable, dont hesitate to jump in to the chats and meet the community, you have a host of fellow Dominants that are traveling the same journey as you, in my experience the support and insight you can get here is invaluable.
I wish you and your submissive the best and if she has not taken a look at the subMrs site i would highly encourage that – it is for the submissive’s only and provides similar community and support.
Best Regards and Welcome once again
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Mr Dadley,
Welcome aboard!
It is wonderful that you have found someone to share this incredible journey with. You have also found a wonderful community with many other Dominants that have embarked on similar journeys.
MrG8tr has already given sound suggestions on where to begin and how to best use the community.
I know that it can seem overwhelming at times and that there doesn’t appear to be a clear path to help navigate your journey. Every journey is individual and no such map exists. Clarity comes with proper communication, research and participating. Read as much of the blog posts and forums as you can. They will help you formalize what D/s-M is and what it isn’t. There is so much information online regarding Dominance and submission that reading here will help you avoid some pitfalls of operating a real relationship rather than weekend kink.
Use the chats to help you along your journey as well. There are several Ambassadors that can help answer questions and also share their personal experiences.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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Hello and welcome. Look forward to seeing you around.
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