greetings all

[husdom]

Mr K sir,

Welcome aboard,

I love to learn about members that are experiencing that new love feeling again. I am curious how you went from the almost splitting up moment to the a D/s-m discussion.

I look forward to learning more about you and your dynamic.

Best wishes,

Mr Fox

[mr-k-sir_]

Mr Fox,

Thank you, I’m happy to be here.

I don’t know how long it was going on for but we slipped into a rut and neither one of us really noticed. It got to the point where we would have sex only on the weekends when we woke up. It was the same thing every week. Our sex life was boring and worse then that we started acting like roommates and not a married couple. I tried to spice up our love life and bring some of the passion back but was always shot down. I got to a point where I didn’t care anymore. I was ready to leave because I wasn’t happy anymore and didn’t know if i still loved my wife. My little Dea found out and was devistated. We spent 2 days locked in our bedroom talking and crying because we both thought it was over. It was at that point, seeing her so hurt, that I realized I still loved her. We decided to try a kinky aspect to our sex life to see if that would help. It did. I have spent a lot of time searching online for different ideas of thing to do, and we started going to an adult bookstore looking at toys. Both of us tended to gravitate to the bdsm section of the store. From that moment, about 2 months ago our sex life has exploded. The passion is back, I think more than before, and we both want to spend every second of everyday together.

As I was looking for ideas online she started looking for toys, jewelry and anything else I could make for us/her. We never discussed a D/s relationship but she was asking me to make her panties with “Submissive” a cross the ass (I also added “Sirs” a cross the front). I made them as well as a few other pairs for her. Then came the different collars she wanted, and the leash(still working on). The other night I was working on a leather collar for her when she came a cross your site. She told me about it and I joined, she joined subMrs.

As of right now we are only practicing in the bedroom and when the kids are not home. It has added a new dynamic to our relationship that we both love. I find your site extremely useful as I can relate to almost everything in your blogs. I cannot tell you how many times I have read a blog post and said “that’s me, that’s exactly how I feel”. Thank you for you in site and wisdom.

Mr. K sir