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  • Posted by Unknown Member on at

    Hello and well met.

    My wife an I have been together for 18 years, married for 10. I opened up to her 2 weeks ago about wanting to explore a D/s relationship. All the while I was opening up to her, she had the biggest grin on her face. She told me we were already headed down this path for a long time, and was happy I was ready to take my position.

    I’ll admit, I feel like I’m trying to play catch up in a game I haven’t learned yet. She is already 110% in and I want to do everything in my power to give her what she needs. Finding resources hasnt been easy, and most people we talked too seem to only want to hook up.

    Another couple reached out and told us about these sites. I really hope to learn all I can and become the Dom that my pet deserves.

    buck-amb replied 5 years, 8 months ago 6 Members · 6 Replies
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  • OTW-AMB

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    Welcome to husDOM! Get used to feeling like you are catching up 😜, the subs always seem to run ahead. I am glad you have already been able to talk with her and find out she is on board and it sounds like you have good friends.

    I hope this community encourages and strengthens your marriage.

  • sir-bee

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    Valchrys,

    It was a pleasure meeting you in chat this evening. I am glad to see you took a moment to do an introduction. I know you had mentioned that you feel as though you need to catch up to your sub. As I mentioned before, take your time, enjoy your journey. There are no shortcuts with this. Take it one step at a time and remember to make it fun.
    Again, welcome.

    Sir Bee

  • DocWhatshisface

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    Welcome!

  • Unknown Member

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    Thank you all. This is such a great community, and many of you have already helped me so much.

  • mr-b

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    Welcome Valchrys!

    I look forward to chatting with you soon!

    As others have already said…..get use to the “catch up” feeling….just remember that it is you that must set the pace…go at a pace that is comfortable for you.

    Take care!

    Mr. B

  • buck-amb

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    Welcome Valchrys,

    I’m glad you had someone reach out and let you know about husDom. If your subMrs hasn’t already joined subMrs.com I would encourage you to have her do so, they have a wonderful group of subs to learn from and chat with. My wench truly loves the sight.

    Looking forward to seeing you on the chats.

    Buck

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