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Forgive me for not posting sooner
Hello and thank you for those who welcomed me earlier to this incredible place of knowledge. I joined the site a while back but then we had some family emergencies that caused me to put off some things unfortunately. But as things settle I am trying to restore some normalcy into my life, one of which is teaching My babygirl.
I have been married to babygirl for 20 years this month, and when we first married she was the last person I’d have thought submissive. She comes from a family of “Amazonian” females who dominate the men in their family. Over the past 10 years when we spent some time in online social gaming, her submissive side truly came out. I’ve been dominant for her for the past few years, but only recently has she expressed her desire to make if more formal and strict, to fulfill her desires. This, of course, is what I’ve wanted for years. Now if only one day she’ll except her bisexuality just as equally.
We are trying to start things slowly, as years of training by her family make her resistant at times to lose control of situations. It can be a struggle at times. I know I need to learn to communicate more clearly as we work on her issues. She tries hard though so I am patient. It’s a marathon not a sprint. I have enjoyed what I have learned from your site and hope one day to help contribute in some small way.
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3 Replies
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Nathaniel,
Welcome to husDom. It sounds like you have an excellent handle on your situation already, and are on your way.
It think you’ll find that as you move along on your journey, your D/s is something to rely on during times of trouble, rather than something to be set aside. This fall has been rough for my sub and I, but our D/s is there to comfort us in these tough times.
Yours,
Boris
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Welcome Nathanial,
Glad you found the site. Being a Dom is hard work but well worth it. Keep us informed of what’s happening and we will help where we can.
Thanks,
Mr. K
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What both Boris and Mr. K said is so true. I think you are doing it right though, slowly let the dynamic evolve. Lots of two way communication and trust both ways. 🙂 Enjoy!
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