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Excited want to be Sub here
This is all very complicated for me, that’s why I have joined your site.
We have, like you, been high school sweethearts and now entering into our 24th year of marriage. I have always wanted to be punished and dominated by my husband for years. Begging to be choked and spanked into submission. He always thwarted my suggestions, saying he didn’t want to hurt me or leave marks. He had been acting very coy lately so I did the only thing I knew to do, I looked at his browser history. To my delight I found that he was actually looking at BDSM sites! I was thrilled. Now I am confronted with my deepest fantasy and trying to navigate our roles.
You must know this about me though, I am by nature a very dominate person. His nature is to not be. I have found that by submitting, he is becoming stronger and more confident. He is actually giving me orders and I am obeying like I should. I could truly be the Dom but I really want to let go. I really, really do. He has insisted that before any true role-playing be done, we have to educate ourselves and take our time. From what I have researched that is pretty normal. I hope this doesn’t sound silly but I have ordered some books, so hopefully that will help ease his worries.
I find this all to be very exciting and a true life changer/marriage saver. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to introduce myself!
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mylongears,
What a wonderful username… I am partial to long ears…
As much as I would like to get to know you and have you educate yourself on the other side of the equation I must say that husDOM is a Dominant only community. Your husband would benefit the most from the membership here and should strongly consider joining.
There is a community for you as well, https://submrs.com As you probably already know this is my lk’s community for submissives. You can always contact her directly if you have any specific questions regarding your journey.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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