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Evolving relationship
Greetings, my wife and I have had and informal Daddy-little girl relationship for some time, but we recently decided to make it formal. She told me she wanted to submit to me completely and we talked through it and came to an initial agreement. Since then we have talked through many aspects of what this means for us in the long term, and agree that our partnership and marriage is the most important part of what we are doing. Submitting to me as her Daddy will enhance and strengthen our life together, and give her the consistency, framework and discipline to pursue her professional, educational and creative goals.
Together over the past couple weeks we created a list of rules for her. She hasn’t been allowed to touch herself or cum without permission for most of our relationship, but this brings that kind of submission out of the bedroom and into our lives full time. My goal is not to control every aspect of her life–I don’t pick her clothes or tell her what to eat–but to give her stable expectations for her behavior and our relationship. We use spankings as funishment and punishment, but keep real punishment spankings reserved for when she is truly bad. She can always get a good spanking by being a brat or breaking a simple rule like not brushing her teeth and washing her face each morning. She’s had some trouble understanding that I need a reason to punish her, even just for fun.
She truly wants to be my good girl, but likes to get turned over my knee as a precursor to sex or other play. We also enjoy some bondage, like tying her up or down to the bed, and are starting to experiment with some role play. The naked fun parts have been part of our relationship for quite a while, but taking that mindset beyond sex has posed some challenges and getting used to.
To add even more complication, we also have a four-month-old son who always seems to know the worst possible time to wake up screaming and hungry.
For us this is all based on trust and respect. My little girl has clear expectations and is rewarded and punished based on her behavior. She is having some difficulty in her now-formal role, but this is what she wants and needs in our marriage and we continue to talk through the issues she’s having giving up control and learning obedience.
D
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2 Replies
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duncan,
Welcome aboard!
Your introduction describes a sound and well thought out dynamic.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Hello Duncan, welcome to HusDom! There is an abundance of information on the site and an equal amount of new and experience DOM’s to bounce ideas off.
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HL
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