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Brand new to formal D/S
Hello.
I am a forty year old man, and My wife and I have been married for fifteen years. Over the last two she has been increasingly submissive and enjoying being restrained, either tied up or physically restrained restrained by me. I was not always dominant but her submissiveness has brought out a very dominating side thT I did not know existed. Just this weekend, she confessed that she had been reading bondage sex stories and wanted a full D/S relationship.
Like some other newbie intros I am not sure how to progress. I am thrilled to dominate her and own her in many ways. But I don’t want a full M/S at this point and I want to keep this in the bedroom only for now. The problem is that she may want to move faster then I. How do I ensure that we stay in step? I want her to be happy, fulfilled and free in her sub role.
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pdxMaster,
Welcome Aboard…
My lk and I began in the bedroom only as well. I believe that bits and pieces of it will naturally progress outside of the bedroom soon enough without any effort on your part.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Princess and I have been gradually evolving towards the lifestyle for about two years. We are at a place where we are hybrid bedroom and outside as I now approve any clothes she wears, in luring bras and panties. Princess is only allowed g strings or crotchless panties. I have also given her a locking bracelet,anklets and day collar necklace that she must wear everyday, even to work. And in the bedroom she always wants me to be dominant and to tie her up and use her as I choose. But until recently she would not admit that she was submissive. I think she was embarrassed and felt that she was against societal norms. Princess has a very strong good girl complex. She had been reading a lot on her kindle and when I asked her what she was reading, she became evasive. So I tied her up and read her stories. They were all about women being forced to have sex, submitting to their man and loving it. That was when she finally admitted that she wanted to submit to me, And that began our path into a formal D/S lifestyle. That was about two weeks ago. I don’t know where to go from here.
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PDXDom,
But until recently she would not admit that she was submissive. I think she was embarrassed and felt that she was against societal norms.
This does tend to be the issue…
Congratulations on the new journey…
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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PDXDom,
Welcome to husDOM! It is always nice to welcome new members. Please make yourself at home, settle in, and enjoy what the future holds for you both!
Take Care!
Mr. B
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