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Better late than never
I have been on this site for a few weeks now and realized I never did post on here to introduce myself.
My sub, 102011 on subMrs (our anniversary date), have been in a D/s relationship since the day we met….we just didn’t realize it. We had never put a label on it. I have been into and exploring the BDSM world for years as a fantasy but never really acted on it or pursued it. Like a lot of people, after my wife read the 50 shades series, got turned on to the idea so we started dabbling with some bedroom bondage. Then after doing more reading/research and introspection were decided to go further down our path of D/s.
The most interesting part is that not much has changed in the dynamic of our relationship…we were already there so to speak. Putting this label on it has helped us become more focused on our relationship and has really helped our communication and appreciation for our respective roles.
We found this site while looking for advice on how to balance our D/s relationship and having 2 toddlers running around the house. It seems that most sites and info is based on someone without children and who isn’t in a loving marriage. This site has been awesome thus far and I look forward to getting to know everyone and becoming active in the community.
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