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Approaching this from a different angle
So I seem to be a bit of an odd one out compared to most… I’m not the Dominant in out beautiful Chinook’s life, nor am I the primary one. Her husband of 7 years is, as am I. Their marriage is sacrosanct, but when we all first met there was… electricity.
I’m (in?)directly to blame for her starting to explore this side of things after that, having come from the kink and polyamory communities though several years out of either when this started. I’d in fact stepped away from both, moving from California out to Missouri, setting those things on the shelf as she so aptly has described it before.
As I like to describe it, I an Merlin to his King Arthur, or in terms more recently bubbled about I am somewhat Taylor to his Grey. A Beta, but still a leader by nature; oddly most comfortable in life leading only at the behest or in place of another. And while they have been together for 7 years, and there are 3 children running around, I’ve been part of it for only the last year roughly… and what a year it has been. Lost 20 pounds so far, moved a thousand miles, just in general made massive improvements to my life to make this all work, and so far… amazingly… it is starting to finally seem to work for us all three.
So, hello to everyone, I’m glad to have had our beautiful Chinook find this site, and show it to us.
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