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  • Another new guy

    Posted by mountainlion on at

    Hi everybody,

    I’m another new guy to the forum. I’ve lurked around the blog a little bit recently but was unsure if I should sign up. First of all, I’m not married. So not technically a husDOM. My sub and I are in a monogamous relationship. This is the first time either of us have been in a d/s relationship. We’re also a long distance couple, however we spend a considerable time together. Much more than pretty much any long distance relationship I’ve ever heard about. We’re lucky in that regard. I’ve done some research on a few d/s blogs and such and haven’t encountered a community that more closely matches our relationship than this one does. We are moving in together within the next month or two after three years of being “together”. I’m hoping to learn from the experienced members here and grow as a Dom with the other new guys.

    My sub and I have decided we would both benefit from and enjoy a full time d/s relationship. It started as a bedroom-only thing but quickly evolved. We’ve decided we want to spend the rest of our lives together and will be getting engaged soon, and subsequently married so I will be a husDOM soon enough I imagine. (I hope you won’t mind me joining your secret married guys club without actually being married just yet. Just consider me an apprentice husDOM) This way of life really suits the two of us perfectly. As far back as I can remember I’ve been the natural leader/take charge kind of guy. My girlfriend on the other hand has always been the type to care for or serve and help others. She’s much more at home being support for a strong leader type.

    I guess that works for a quick introduction, if there’s any other info that would be appreciated please let me know.

    P.S.
    Thank you to the few of you that have already reached out to contact me through private message or in the chat room. I appreciate the warm welcomes.

    -ML

    mountainlion replied 9 years, 9 months ago 4 Members · 4 Replies
  • 4 Replies
  • dominus

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    Welcome to husDOM,

    I hope to chat with you soon and learn more sbout you!

    Best regards
    Sir

  • sirhamlet

    Member
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    Welcome ML. Thank you for sharing.

    This is a great community and pretty open minded. I don’t think that anyone here would Judge you for not being married… And I’m sure that you are not alone. HusDom is more about the lifestyle / dynamic and learning how to be better a better Dom.

    Looking forward to chatting with you.

  • husdom

    Administrator
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    Mountain Lion,

    Welcome aboard!

    Of course you are welcome here on husDOM…

    I look forward to chatting with you soon…

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

  • mountainlion

    Member
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    Thank you Mr. Fox. Looking forward to it myself.

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