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An Introduction…
Good evening,
My lille ræv and I have been married for 11 years, and 24/7 D/s-M since the beginning of February. I’ve always had a more-than-passing interest in D/s and BSDM. Before I met my lille ræv, in my wandering years, I’d been to a few clubs that catered to BSDM, but never a participant.
We’ve experimented with D/s a little bit over the years with spankings and light bondage, but she came to me and submitted herself to me after reading “50 Shades of Gray”. While at first I was taken aback and thought it was a bit of a phase, we spoke at length as to what she thought becoming my submissive would mean. She expressed how many of the thoughts the submissive character in the book mirrored her own, and she had the realization that pleasing me pleased her. I asked her if the thought of me using a riding crop on her excited her. She said it did. I listed off several other ‘tools of the trade’ that I’d likely use on her, and all of the suggestions excited her, she admitted.
That night we made love, but instead of the mechanical, formulaic duty it had become, I took the reins and tried something new. I spanked her. Hard. She was stunned, frozen with a shocked look. And then she pushed her ass back at me and asked for more. I told her to beg me to spank her again, which she did. This lead to a bit of impromptu sub training and resulted in me accepting her submission to me.
While at work the next day, my phone would not stop vibrating, as she had started researching being submissive online, and she was sending me links and asking me questions. Then she found subMrs, and said how it was not really D/s, but D/s for married people. That distinction alone caused me to take notice. The married aspect is so rarely acknowledged, let alone put out front. So, she shared with me the subMrs article about Formal Acceptance, and also told me there’s a counterpart site, HusDOM.
There’s a lot of site out there about D/s and the ‘lifestyle’, but their horrible site design and questionable grammar were hard to take seriously. Many of those sites seemed more like ‘hobby’ sites than a site where not only is information gained, but intelligent discussions happen. HusDOM puts every other D/s site I’ve visited to shame. Reading the blogs Mr. Fox posts causes me to ask the same questions he seems to ask himself, allowing me to form an opinion. In addition, the fact that LK’s articles are just as well written means my lille ræv will be able to have that same experience of forming her own opinions, rather than being ‘told’ how a submissive should act. I truly feel that together Mr. Fox and LK have conjured the magic formula of ‘every couples’ dynamic is different’ with ‘there are certain D/s traditions than can be applied’, and do not force their own views upon their readers.
I feel that last paragraph was quite praise-heavy, but it is also well-earned praise. The blogs and forum posts have been instructive, insightful and educational, while at the same time open-ended enough to allow me to apply the subject to our own journey. All of what I have read, by Mr. Fox or fellow Dominants on the forums, have felt genuine, which makes learning how to apply that knowledge and wisdom easier.
My apologies for the long-winded post. I have a tendency to prattle on when excited, and I am very excited to learn and share with this amazing community.
With regards,
lille ræv’s Daddy
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1 Reply
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I fucking love this intro. Welcome to HusDom. Sorry I”m late to say Hi. I’ve been swamped at work. I look forward to chatting live at some point
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