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A step closer?
Hi All,
I have joined here to see if husDom is what it professes to be. Been through a lot of traumatic experiences (haven’t we all!) and I am skeptical that anything other than myself can ever help me. It looks great so far. Had a brief chat with DOM and I’m looking forward to meeting more experienced folks that can help me keep on being honest with myself. I have some major flaws that I have been working on and although I feel like I am growing in confidence I have times when I am lost through lack of understanding and experience. I struggle with investing in something (like husDom) that could end up biting me.
I read as many blog articles as I can but I’m going slow. I find each time I learn something new, but each time I re-read there is some nuance that I did not understand the first time. I try to hold a consistent frame and put things I have learned into practice slowly. However I am still conflicted internally about some things and this is down to my lack of understanding, preparation and direction. This feels right to be going through this, and part of my shame is that I have allowed myself to get to this time in my life and only now start to understand my true self and consequently my partner and my children. The mountain ahead is HUGE!!
Matt
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Nothing here to bite you in the ass except being honest with yourself, doing the right thing and trying to become a better man/dominant. Welcome to a site that emphasizes personal integrity. It can be hard work but the rewards far outweigh the effort.
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Lost one,
Welcome aboard!
husDOM is certainly how it is represented by the membership however, there is no road map to success.
As for “HusDOM biting you in the ass”… It can’t be done. HusDOM doesn’t control your fate sir, only you do. HusDOM is a wonderful resource for those that have chosen a path along a different journey.
Your statement regarding ‘only you can help you’… Agreed…
Success lies directly on your shoulders. The HusDOM community is a wonderful tool that you can use to help you succeed. Much Like the Bricks and mortar can’t build the foundation of a house, it takes the mason, but they are certainly beneficial to building a solid foundation.
Furthermore, if the foundation cracks or crumbles it is most likely not the bricks fault, rather the mason’s.
Commit 100% and own it…
I look forward to chatting with you in the future.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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