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A new D/s relationship
Gentleman, I am now ready for my introduction.
My wife, Hawkgirl on SUBMRS, and I have been together since our teens and now have two small children. We have been happily married but having kids has noticeably strained us. I am a professional and my career choice is full of stress, risk, and high expectations. My fuse is slightly shorter with these new demands and, in response, my wife has become more naturally submissive over the last two years to make things smoother at home. I bought my wife FSOG for a spicy stocking stuffer about a year ago. I did not have any intentions of a D/s relationship officially. I had told her 10 years ago that I would like it if she would be more “subserviant” after an argument as a way to improve our relationship to which she was not receptive.
FSOG was sitting in her bedstand for a year, and she finally decided to read it. It awakened something in her, and she asked me to read it. Afterwards, I was surprised that she envied their relationship. She comes from a family of stong willed and proud women with a defiant streak. However, she is giving, caring, and puts our family far above herself. I was interested especially after our bedroom behavior became much less inhibited and mirrored that of our 20 something selves. As she expressed interest in becoming a submissive for intimate purposes, I became more interested in a total D/s relationship. Although apprehensive, she began to entertain the idea with small changes and now we have a contract one month later that is working for us. After a just a short time, I feel this is the marriage we were meant to have.
I am an alpha with an intense appreciation for courtesy and a certain love of contol; this suits me well. I am competitive and practice MMA/ Brazillian Jiu-jitsu with some experience in kickboxing; being physically powerful and dominating has always been important to me. I’ve come to realize, however, that I was/am lacking in presence with my family. In order to be a proper leader in this arena, it has come to my attention that my mental presence, patience, and love are required. I will need to focus inward in order to dominate my very intelligent and capable wife, as I know now I need to earn her submission. We are tearing down the walls between us and it feels amazing. I have alot of work to do, but I look forward to this new challenge. I am working on being a better father and husband. My marriage feels saved, and I didn’t even know it needed saving. My wife is my new favorite conquest, and it has become apparent to me now that her submission is my greatest accomplishment yet. -
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Accipiter,
Welcome aboard,
It amazes me how many similarities I find with members as they introduce themselves on the forum.
My marriage feels saved, and I didn’t even know it needed saving.
It sounds as though you have successfully embarked on your new journey.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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