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A (kinda) Brief Introduction
husDOMs,
I am thrilled to have found your community. I look forward to reading more of your experiences and sharing some of my own.
I will begin by introducing myself as Mr.Scorp, the alias I’ve chosen to use. The inspiration for my chosen name came from my astrological sun sign, Scorpio, which I identify closely with.
I have given my wife the play name “Kitten”. When I refer to her here that is the name I will use. I started calling her this during RP sessions before either of us had any idea what D/s even was, so it seemed only fitting once we learned it was a thing. We have been married since April of last year. We spent 9 years together before getting married.
In June of this year we moved states and changed our lives pretty drastically. It was something we had been talking about doing for a long time, so when the opportunity arose for me to take a transfer to this area I took it. She left her job, we packed up our things, put the pets in the car and headed North. We didn’t know it at the time, but this was the beginning of our D/s journey.
The lifestyle transition was strange and somewhat difficult at first. Here it’s been over 3 months and it still feels odd at times. She felt insecure at first about not having a job and not helping with the financial burden. I assured her though that everything would be fine even if things were different than they were. I reminded my Kitten often that everything she did at home was a significant help and I appreciated it greatly, but she still needed something more. That being said, she knew she didn’t want to work a “normal job” anymore. With this is mind I decided to tell her to give up the thought and focus her energy on creating art with her newly found free time. Since she was a girl she has wanted to be an artist and has always had a gift for it. I told her I would learn the business aspect of the art world and help guide her decisions so she could treat it like a “real job”. With the acceptance of my plan many of her insecurities disappeared. She is now very enthusiastic about her work, looks forward to each day and can’t wait to give life to all the great ideas she has. I look forward to seeing the joy in Kitten’s face when her art begins to touch other people’s lives.
Since making a conscious decision to introduce D/s in to “play time” our already great sex life has gotten even better. It has come somewhat naturally to us, we’ve always been somewhat inclined to play this way. Without a doubt though it has made a noticeable difference in the satisfaction we both get from it. “Was it good for you” and similar questions are never on our minds when cuddling after a lovemaking session. She and I both know the answer.
I’m sure I’ve already written more than most will care to read, so I’ll leave it at that for now. If you did happen to read it all, thanks! I look forward to hearing from you.
Thanks,
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2 Replies
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Welcome to husDom Mr.scorp. I am glad to hear that everything is working out wonderfully for you. I am sure that you will find that this site has a very helpful community. If no one has been able to answer any questions, the Dominant Blog has tons of information. I wish you best of luck on your journey with Kitten!
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Scorp,
Welcome to husDOM!
A very nice introduction indeed. The story of your journey with your kitten sounds wonderful.
I am equally as thrilled with your participation within our community as you are with having discovered it. As the community continues to grow so will the resource for other husDOMs.
I hope learn more about you and your journey in the future.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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