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a gentle start
My wife and I are starting to formalize something we have been doing for years unknowingly. I have always been dominant, and she submissive. As we have spoken about our life and marriage we realize that our happiest times have been when we were consciously D/s. We are starting 24/7, because we have been living this way without the formal acknowledgment.
In our 18 years together, I have always made the decisions, what to eat, what vacation, financial planning to the point that my wife had to ask to spend money, child discipline, etc. Many times, I have been unhappy and stressed, wishing my partner would shoulder her share of the burden and greatly upset when she would inadvertently fail. I have felt more at peace in the last week than in the last 10 years, and my Natasha says the same, and we have only been trying the roles out very tentatively.
So our regular lives will flow smoothly into D/s, it’s our bedroom life that will take some adjustment, even though we have been D/s there as well.
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