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22 years married, 3 years D/s
Greetings everyone. My name is Keith and I have been married to my little one for 22 years. We always had a bit of dynamic but didn’t know any words to go with it or that it even existed. I caught my wife reading a BDSM themed romantic book, and she seemed mortified. I read a little and I think we had the most honest discussion of our married lives. Turns out she was interested in it. I have always loved kink. So after a little play that proved we were on the same page we started in the bedroom only. Quickly within 6 months I told her that I had a hard time limiting it to the bedroom only and that I saw her as my wife, the mother of our children and kneeling in submission. with that we took it outside the bedroom. I created a million rules and that failed rather quickly. So we sat down and discussed the power exchange, what I needed, what she needed, what our expectations were. I trimmed back and only have a few protocols and hard rules. this has worked well for us. We grow deeper and things get a little easier each day. My control improves and her surrender is more and more complete as we go along. I thought our relationship was good before, but the improved communication, me not letting her get away with her attitude had just made our relationship deeper and deeper. I wish I would have had a site like this in the early day. However I am glad to have found it now. I look forward to learning and discussing with all of you. I am open to questions and help anyone with advise from my short experience. I am a member of my local MaST chapter though don’t identify as M/s. I am also a member of our local Kink club, where I run a Power Exchange discussion group that meets monthly. We do not have a Dom only group at the moment so I am excited about find you all.
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3 Replies
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Neptun1994,
Welcome aboard,
The mistakes that you made regarding a million rules is one of the most common mistakes made when entering into the lifestyle.
I, like you, wish that there was a place like husDOM™ when I began my journey as well…
I look forward to chatting with you in the future.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Very cool. Three years is something! Welcome
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Glad to have you on board Neptune!
“me not letting her get away with her attitude”
I definitely get that! Looking forward to chatting with you.
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