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Greetings from hisQueen
Greetings All,
It is with some trepidation that I introduce myself to this forum – however I introduce myself in the manner I trust I will be met – with integrity. My subject was formerly known on this site as HerSir and will henceforth be known as herSubject clearly no longer on this site. 😊
A short sentence that belies the courage,conviction and commitment of O/our relationship. Where to begin……..
Very early I was blessed with the knowledge that sex needn’t be missionary on Mondays – as a woman with a high pain threshold exploring the joys of the Ddsm lifestyle I hastily ( in hindsight ) slotted into sub mode and was blessed with an experienced Dominant – however the relationship was never 24/7 and our lives were very separate unless we were in the dungeon – I’m realising that I have never given over control.
When I met my husband I was still maintaining the status quo although I had been removed from the scene for quite a number of years. My subject identified as a submissive – the moment I spoke of my ‘submission’ he stated he would be Dominant for me – true story. The first of many things he was and continues to willing do for my happiness.
All was not well in our Kingdom – having placed myself in a 24/7 D/s relationship cracks started appearing. I remember in my former scene life people saying to me perhaps you are not submissive but ‘merely’ masochistic – sadly arrogance prevented me from exploring. The last two weeks have been nothing short of life changing – having embraced my true being, the road ahead looks thrilling!
For the want of brevity ( unless I have already lost it) I will sum up by quoting my subject ‘there are two things I did successfully as your dominant one move us to where you will be happy and challenge your beliefs. It has taken courage and time to stop and look back and say perhaps my first step was incorrect – I look forward to giving and receiving support as I begin my journey again with my subject leashed to my side.
My Kingdom is full of wonderment.
sincerelyQueen
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