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Greetings from a neophyte Dominant
Thank you for hosting this site and allowing my neophyte presence. A mutual friend of Babysister’s and mine is an advanced Master and is actively involved in D/s. I didn’t really dwell on it or even long for it.
I’ve known that I’m a natural Dominant but it honestly wasn’t until YESTERDAY that I (we) had the epiphany to pursue this lifestyle. I’ve been having an issue to where I could enter these Dominant moments with Babysister (which she LOVES) but I would pop out of the realm for fear of losing myself and ‘going to far’. Also, because I love Babysister so much, it was confusing to seperate playtime from love time. As Babysister and I discussed these issues (because she LOVES to be dominated, mildly humiliated and dirty talk), I recalled the Master friend. I realized that if I learn to become a great Dominant that I could easily learn to trust myself and seperate playtime from love time. I feel it will be a more organized and controlled way to allow myself to let go within our scenes and protocols. It’s the answer!
Mind you, Babysister and I have COMPLETE TRUST with each other and she obeys my commands. What I hope to gain from this awesome community is the knowledge and experience that you can transmit. Im definitely looking forward to the journey! So is she!
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