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  • New to this life.

    Posted by cr8zysn8ke on at

    Hello, I’m a 38yr old in Washington state. I’ve been married for (as of Jan 20th) 8 years and in November of 2019 she thought she pinned me down and said “it’s funny how you think you’re in control”. One second later I overpowered her and pinned her to the floor. That flipped a switch for her. We talked and she started sending me almost every article from this site. This site’s information was so good and helped me see what this life really is, not what I thought it was. We did an online test and found that we were perfect matches on what we both need. That and the information from this site have made me so excited to live a D/s lifestyle. In December she pledged herself to be my submissive. After signing the contract, the whole dynamic in the house has changed. I wear suits after I get off work, And I’m finding that I like rigging and she loves being my rope bunny. I’m excited to learn as much as I can and have a great place to openly ask questions. We have never been closer then we are now. This has really opened up our communication.

    OTW-AMB replied 4 years, 10 months ago 4 Members · 3 Replies
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  • sir-hermosa-amb

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    The communication and the out-of-bedroom aspect are definitely the high points in our dynamic. Not that having her tied to my bed is bad though tbh 😉

    Welcome sir. Hit me up anytime if you want to chat about ropes.

    And get used to being amazed by her as this progresses!

    Cheers

  • husdom

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    cr8zysn8ke,

    Welcome aboard,

    Your situation has one of the most natural and genuine power exchanges that I have heard. I really enjoyed reading your story this morning, thank you for sharing it with all of us. You will soon discover that husDOM is a brotherhood of Dominant men, where when we put ourselves out there just a little bit and expose to each other who we really are under our masks, we begin to learn great things from one another.

    I look forward to hearing more of your story.

    Best wishes

    Mr Fox

  • OTW-AMB

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    Welcome to husDOM cr8zysn8ke,

    That sounds like a fun way to discover her submissiveness and your dominance. I hope that as you continue to grow in this journey you can enjoy some of the benefits of communication and increased intimacy that we have found in this change to an already good marriage.

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