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  • On again, off again D/s-M Relationship – How to keep it on again!

    Posted by Sir-Longhorn on at

    My wife and I have had this on again, off again D/s-M Relationship ever since the Fifty Shades books came out. We’ve purchased all kinds of toys and when the toy bag comes out, it’s lots of fun. It then dies down for a while as normal life takes over. We have 4 teenage kids so scheduling time together is challenging, not to mention the hiding of the toys. My wife has recently approached me and made it clear that she wanted to try again and she told me about this site. I immediately joined and told her that she needs to join the submrs.com site.

    As I read many of the blogs, the most poignant point I read was that there is a difference between a true D/s-M relationship and just kinky sex. We would both like to have a true D/s-M relationship but the $64,000 question is how do you keep it going, especially with living a normal life with kids. I’m going to learn all I can but any advice from the community would be greatly appreciated.

    sir-hermosa-amb replied 4 years, 5 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • sir-hermosa-amb

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    Hey Mr Long!

    I can totally understand where you’re at. With 3 kids, working 2 jobs, and the Mrs also full time at work, I can definitely feel your challenges.

    But it can be done!

    Takes work and dedication and persistence.

    Communication, trust, honesty, some more communication, hard work, and a little more communication.

    Go slow and be consistent sir. Keep reading those blogs MrFox has up. You might he surprised at how many answers you find to your questions by reading through the blogs and MrFox’s journey into this.

    Check the forums, and log into chat. I’ll be happy to talk your ear off any time.

    Cheers

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