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  • New to D/s, and to the site

    Posted by aimwell on at

    Hello, everyone.

    It’s been a rush lately as my wife and I have explored more about our relationship and our sexuality than at any time before. And we don’t want to go back.

    What I’m hoping to learn from the members of this group is how we might move ahead. Bedroom dominance is one thing (when I tabled my inhibitions, that flowed easily), but we want more. We’re just not sure what this would look like in a reality that includes a 20+ year marriage and kids.

    Looking forward to learning.

    buck-amb replied 5 years, 9 months ago 5 Members · 4 Replies
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  • OTW-AMB

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    Welcome to husDOM Aimwell, there are many of us who moved out of the bedroom with D/s-M with years of previous marriage and kids. We were married for almost 10 before starting and have two young kids.

  • sir-bee

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    Welcome Aimwell,

    There are plenty of gentlemen here that can help you begin to move forward on your journey. Please feel free to reach out, ask questions and participate in chat.

    Sir Bee

  • MrDominus

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    Welcome Aimwell

    There are many different aspects to a d/s dynamic. What mine looks like might not be what your looking for. The start of your journey together begins with open and honest communication between the two of you. Talk honestly about what the two of you want to see in your relationship.There are many posts and forum topics to gain ideas from. As mentioned feel free to ask questions in the chat there are many Doms here with all different kinds of experience.

    Dominus

  • buck-amb

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    Welcome to husDom Aimwell,

    Like you I have found more in my relationship with my Wench, both relationship wise and sexually wise. We have been married for almost 45 years and together for almost 47 and we are closer now then at anytime in our marriage. We also started out in the bedroom and soon went farther into a 24/7 type of dynamic. We kept it simple and build on that. Somethings worked and somethings didn’t. Not all dynamics are the same and there are many Doms on this site so you can get a good cross section of what would work for you and your subMrs.

    Again welcome and I am looking forward to chatting with you again.

    Enjoy the journey,

    Buck

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