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Brave New world
Hi gentlemen,
Me and my wife have been married for 8 years when we reached the lowest point of our relationship a few months ago.
We decided that we are going to save our family and started counseling. When we reached the sex part, my wife told me all about her experience as a sub and how she misses it in her life. Little did I know that she was referring to it being 24/7 and not just in the bedroom.
Her main concern is that this is impossible to have in a marriage, let alone in a family life.I was intrigued, but also extremely insecure. Can we make it work? Will I live up to her expectations?
I have experience in bondage and rough sex but I have never referred to myself as a Dom.Eventually I discovered this community a few days ago and it definitely helped to see that there are so many similar relationships that are doing it and never look back. This has given me a new hope and excitement to begin this journey.
Hoping to write more soon with interesting new stories.
Risk
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5 Replies
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Risk,
Welcome aboard,
You have discovered a wonderful community with thousands of members on each site with similar goals. It has been amazing what has taken place in my personal dynamic and other dynamics as well. I invite you to share your story along your personal journey as you will touch many other members much like they have already touched you.
By paying it froward as we go we are creating a new norm for what a Married Dominance and submission lifestyle should look like.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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Ello Risk,
Welcome Sir hope you find a supportive place for yourself here and your sub/wife. If I am on please say hi I am always willing to chat. My Advise might not be the best but I will always listen.Still
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Hi Risk,
You have definitely come to the right place. By the title alone, you can assume almost everyone here is married. But there are people in all kinds of situations who are including a 24/7 dynamic within this website. I have 4 kids, my wife is 4 months pregnant with our 5th, we work, take care of extended family, participate at church and still ensure that our 24/7 dynamic is a priority. So yes it’s possible. Read through the blogs here to get a good understanding of what having a D/s dynamic looks like in the midst of family. Also hit the guys up on the chat often.
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Risk, welcome to the community. This place has been a big blessing so far in our marriage and starting D/s-M.
While I am relatively new to the lifestyle, we like Sly above are having this lifestyle extend outside the bedroom. There a subtle ways you can you still fulfill your roles while still meeting your obligations and commitments in front of others without being obvious. In fact, that is some of the fun. When I ask my minx to do something in front of others, my calling her darling sounds affection and asking sounds normal, but she knows it is an instruction not a request. 🙂
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Risk,
Welcome to the neighborhood!I had many of the same concerns 3 1/2 years ago and here we are making it work. I have learned here it is about taking what works for your dynamic and nothing else. We have a great community here full of great guys that are here to learn and grow. I look forward to getting to know you better and hearing about your journey. I hope your wife has found subMrs.
See you on chat Mr.Cain
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