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Back again
I joined several months ago as my and my new sub were expkoring this lifestyle. The sub that I was with at the time said that she wanted the lifestyle, but never got into it. I think she just liked Fifty Shades.
Fast forward to about a week ago and i am back with a new sub, but my babygirl has identified to me that she is a full-blown slave. I had her take an online questionaire which confirmed that she is 90% slave 5% babygirl and 5% brat.
She is a very professional person working in an office environment and wants me to be her Dom/Master.
I am a bit overwhelmed but eager and reading all that I can about properly domming a slave.
It all started when we were making some plans for our first overnight trip together and I told her that I didn’t have any specific plans. Instantly she bratted up and frankly I was completely befuddled.
The next morning as we were texting (we live separately) I asked what the problem was and she said she didn’t know.
As I continued to diagnose our issue, it became apparent that she wanted dominated!!!
When I asked her if she had ever thought about a D/s relationship it took her back a little, but it was obvious that she had this hidden desire.
Since then she has fully, and I mean fully embraced her new role. In fact just a few minutes ago, she told me that she has signed up for the 8 week kneeling challenge at submrs.com without me even telling her to.
I am looking very much forward to our new journey together.
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DomRobert,
Welcome back sir…
It is wonderful that you have found someone to share your D/s journey with. And even better that she has already signed up for subMrs™.
I would offer caution when taking one of the online questionnaires to determine what someone is or is not, including yourself. Realize that they are simply entertainment and nothing scientific.
I have seen many times when people actually make an effort to become exactly what the questionnaire said they were and they disregard some of their genuine attributes and desires.
With that being said, there are also couples that dont differentiate the differences in the terminology.
No matter the case be sure to allow your dynamic to develop naturally and organically.
It is good to have you back!
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Appreciate the input and advice and I agree, that was the reason that I wanted to get back involved in this forum so we both can get the guidance that we need to make this successful and fun.
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Welcome Back DomRobert-
You received some sage advice from Mr. Fox. I would also recommend that you make the relationship what you want it to be and don’t let the ‘stereo-types’ or lack of good information force your submissive into a prescribed direction. I would say that if that were the case here we would not have Mr. Fox’s and his LK’s HusDom community and SubMrs community.
I look forward to catching up with you in the chats and am very excited to here about how your journey evolves. I am fascinated by both the similarities and uniqueness of all of our journeys – it is the beauty of this community as i believe you have seen as well.
My best to you and your new sub Sir…enjoy and have fun!
Mr. G8tr
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