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  Ignorance to realisation to interest.

  Posted by ausdom84 on at

  Hello Husdom community.
  My story is a weird one. I have always been dominant (unknowingly) in my past relationships, and was so early in my marriage. This changed about two years in when my amazing wife requested that I change. So I did, things went up and down for a while. Then we found a nice rhythm. Which lasted about another 4 years. Rhythm became routine and routine became boredom. We trudged along for a while before problems arose. Then we ended up both rhinking of leaving. Before about 1 year
  ago some very difficult conversations we decided to explore. My love then bust out of the gates discovered her sub desires and through my own pain, ignorance and stubbornness. She explored, found a dom ((online) and continued on the journey with my consent but without me. After i found out and more very confronting conversations we agreed that she should explore. My own misconception on the world of Dom/sub held me back. To help me understand what was going on. I decided to learn more about BDSM (3 months ago). I was amazed at how wrong I was on the aspects of dominance and how I identify with so many aspects. I found this site about 2 months ago and have been on it everyday learning and absorbing. It has made me believe that at some time in the future we can have a D/s-M relationship. Although not right away as we are on different journeys. Any advice; links to learning materials and chats will be appreciated.

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  Good morning and Welcome to husDom Ausdom
  It does appear you are on quite the journey sir. I know you will find a wealth of information here to gain insight and guidance that will surely help you identify with and embrace your ‘inner’ Dominant.
  It sounds like you are making good progress on your studies and research across the site, as you find information that resonates or you have questions i would encourage you to reach out to the community, Mr. Fox, and others to gain more insight into the areas you are interested in, may need suggestions, or simply share how your journey is transforming.
  My very best to you and i hope your journeys intersect sooner than later and more importantly you find all of the information you are looking for.
  My very best to you sir
  Mr. G8tr

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