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  • My introduction

    Posted by vinnie_ on at

    Good day all.

    I’m new here and nee to on-line comms about my chosen married lifestyle. I’ve been kinky inside for sometime and felt something was missing in the bedroom, and that surely there is a way to enhance sensation, connection and enjoyment. I’ve always been dominant in bed with my wife, and never really lacked confidence so she’s always let me lead. Now I want to go further with that role.

    Mrs V and I have been together for almost 17 years and we seemed to lack joint structure in the marriage but not with our kids. It turns out she’s always wanted me to be as assertive outside of the bedroom, and so we’ve agreed to create our own D/s-M dynamic.

    We’re negotiating everything at the moment, including life rules, protocols, punishments and play aspects (I think I lean towards sadist) and it’s looking like a much fulfilled way of life for all of us.

    I came here to pick up ideas learn standards for D-types and perhaps share my own views and progress.

    Looking forward to scouting around the site and possibly exchanging ideas.

    All the best,
    Vinnie

    P.S. the attached image explains me well, and I do love a good meme 🙂

    husdom replied 7 years, 2 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • husdom

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    Vinnie,

    Welcome aboard,

    Your introduction assures me that you are in the right place. I was absent for a bit while we conducted our annual gathering in NOLA. Thirty people, fifteen couples, from our communities gathered in NOLA and had a great time.

    I look forward to chatting with you soon. Often times it is the new members who can offer us a different perspective on the dynamic.

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

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