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New path
Hello gentleman,
I’m going to start of by jumping right in. Me and my wife lil Angel have yet to really dive into the lifestyle of D/S M mostly due to the journey that brought us to this step. We have been married 5 years and at the begging of this year we hit a massive wall in our marriage. This wall was the result of many years of ineffective communication, both in the bedroom and our everyday lives. We found help and are now stronger then ever. Long story short, we were both avoiding a lifestyle that we both wanted. Once we were able to communicate about it we realized that we wanted a D/s relationship which brought me here, and her to subMrs. We have not really dug in deep yet since we both agree that we will complete our course and further strengthen our marriage foundation before adding to many additional steps. However we have begun to lay the Building blocks in place to make a smooth transition, mostly by noticing the similarities between the two and working on incorporating d/s M into that. I am both excited and nervous to dive in and I’m so thankful I found this site. I felt welcomed from the first day I logged on and opened the live chat. I am very open to guidance and I will try to stay as active as I can. The biggest concerns I have about starting this journey are that I have a tendency to become oblivious to the world when I get stressed or overworked. For me days turn into weeks and when I look up I’ve left a path of destruction behind including my lil angel. Now this is something I have put great effort into fixing but it haunts me to think that if it happened again it would ruin everything we have worked together on. Couple that with my forgetfulness I fear I will struggle to maintain the consistency needed. I know most if this will come with time practice and patience but it is still daunting non the less. My lil angel means everything to me and i want nothing but the best for her and I’m willing to sacrifice my time and confront to see her become the best person she can be.
Thank you gentlemen
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2 Replies
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Bearcat,
Welcome aboard,
Your concerns that you outlined in your introduction are very real. As you begin to participate here within the community you will come to realize that many of us share the same concerns and struggle with the same general struggle. However, with persistence, consistency and enough tenacity we can all overcome and enjoy one of the greatest relationships with our spouses.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Mr. Fox
Thank you for your reply I have enjoyed this site very much it’s been very helpful.Thank you
Bearcat
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