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  Posted by dukedom on at

  Hi everyone,

  High time I ventured out of the shadows and introduced myself.

  I am 34yrs old from the UK and my Kitten (Dutchess over on LK’s site) is a few months younger. We have been together for coming up to 8 years and although we don’t currently live together – due to numerous external factors which I won’t go in to here – our relationship is honestly, just great.

  Kitten came to me some time ago after finding a website called “taken in hand” and put herself out there by telling me it was a dynamic she wanted in our relationship. Sounded great to me, but I was fearful that in order to satisfy her I would have to fundamentally change who I was when I was around her. Needless to say the idea fizzled out, never to be spoke of again until recently when Kitten came across this site.

  I’ll admit to having the same feelings as I did previously, but she was SO into it that I agreed to check it out. Honestly, I don’t know why I was so worried. We are by no means experienced in this so both starting out together but super excited about where it might lead us.

  We’ve always had a soft D/s relationship without realising it. Things I would do or automatically take control of when we’re together, but now wanting to ramp it up several notches! Despite not being able to live together just now – a situation that should be remedied within the next couple months – our relationship has been amazingly strong. However, the one area we’ve struggled in is the bedroom. For some reason we’ve never really found our “swing” and become comfortable with each other. As we start to experiment with less vanilla activities we’re starting to see why! Neither of us was getting what we NEEDED.

  I can honestly say it is such a relief to find this site and to witness the genuine sincerity of everyone here. I have no idea where our journey will take us but I feel great knowing we’re all in this together.

  Look forward to meeting some/all of you along the way!

  All the best
  DukeDom

  mr-b replied 10 years, 4 months ago 4 Members · 3 Replies

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  my-darlings-sir

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  Hello DukeDom,

  Welcome to HusDom. Congratulations on discovering your journey. You will find that it is ever changing and challenging. But you will also find that it is the most wonderful journey you have ever taken. Here at HusDom you will find resources, information and helpful thoughts and ideas from all different points of view. Take what works for you, ask questions when you need, and contribute when you can. That is truly what HusDom is about.

  Good day,

  My Darlings Sir

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  husdom

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  DukeDom,

  Welcome aboard!

  I really appreciate all of the kind words that you have bestowed upon the community and the atmosphere at husDOM. I believe that it is a reflection of our membership.

  I would also like to offer some great words of wisDOM but after reading MyDarlingSirs response he has left me nothing to add.

  Welcome to the greatest journey of your life and thank you for choosing to make this community a part of it.

  Best wishes,

  Mr Fox

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  mr-b

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  Welcome DukeDom!

  Since there is really nothing for me to say that hasn’t already been mentioned, I will simply say..Welcome and I look forward to chatting with you soon!

  Best of luck on your wonderful journey with Kitten!

  Take Care!

  Mr. B

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