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  Just starting out – Still Learning

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  My wife approached me a few weeks ago very excited and nervous to tell me that she wanted to start experimenting with being dominated. She watched and read all the 50 shades and that led her to other authors of similar styles. She found that this was all a big turn on for her that she was not aware of. We spent a few hours talking about what she wanted to try and what she would not be comfortable with. We have been working through it and are learning together. I have been doing a lot of research trying to educate myself while at the same time staying within her limits. Right now I struggle with what my role actually is. I am trying to come up with “scenes” and its a lot of fun but i am not good enough at this to be spontaneous so it takes a bit of planing. We have a teenage son that is still at home so we are limited in what we can do at home and in public. We are having fun discovering the “New Us” and it has reenergized our relationship. In searching the internet for guidance I found this site and thought it might be a good place to get some advice.

  We have learned that we are probably on the softer side of things so most of what I find online is a bit more than we are looking for and doesn’t help us much.

  Examples of where we are in the bed room
  blind folds
  soft restraining
  toys
  anal
  she likes being directed and totally without control

  outside the bedroom
  I have her sending me pics taken in safe public locations
  sexting
  not wearing panties
  trying to discreetly flirt and petting in public

  I have been reading through the Fox’s Den and have found some things I can apply
  So I am looking for advice to continue moving along these same lines

  Thanks

  Unknown Member replied 7 years, 9 months ago 3 Members · 2 Replies
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  husdom

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  New2Dom,

  Welcome aboard,

  A great introduction! I would imagine that there are countless members here at husDOM that can relate to your experience in one way or another. Your examples that you provided are wonderful and definitely on the right track.

  I look forward to chatting with you more and learning more about you and yours.

  Best wishes,

  Mr Fox

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  Unknown Member

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  Awesome stuff. Glad you found us.

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